Most of us ladies have had a job, lost a job, and knew how to get another. We have also had a man, lost a man, and knew how to get another... But as we get older we want to not have to keep finding a new man or a new job we want to settle down and find somewhere we can retire. Let's breakdown how a man and a job are the same.
You get to pick
Women choose men; men don’t pick the woman. The man might approach you but, your body language let him know you wanted him to
You pick your job; jobs don’t call you asking you if you want to work unless you let them know you are interested
You have a resume that you present in order to qualify
Where you have been before
What jobs you have done that will help you with the one you have applied for?
What have you learned from you other relationships that going to help you with this one?
What makes you a candidate for position
Most jobs don’t just hire you because you look good they want to know you can do that make you good for the position
A man with an value isnt going to be with you because you look good he is going to want to know what makes different than any other woman. Beauty is a dime a dozen
What you are looking for/ what you are expecting
Jobs usually ask how long you plan on being there. They want to get a feel of how commited you are going to be because believe it or not it’s very expensive to hire new employees
This is the same with a good man! The truth is men with standard don’t what to keep have to go through women. They want to someone that is going to be commitent an loyal to the cause. It's very drain (as use women know very well) to have to keep starting over with someone new
You don’t make the rules but you should follow them
Your manager will let you what policies you need to obide by you my not like all them but, follow them to because that keeps you in good standing with your job
A real man will have expectations of you. You don’t get to pick and choose when you follow policy. If you don’t like it you find a policy you can get with
There are consequences for your actions
At work you may get a talking to for minor offense but, for more serious things it will be a write up or even fired
With a man it may be a talking but, for serious thing there may loosing certain privileges or termination of the relationship
You can be fire or quit at anytime
When you are on a job and things just arent going in your favor you can quite. The respectful thing is to give notice. Or your employer my decide that things just arent working out so they let you go.
When a man isnt working out you can break up with him. Also again you want to give notice just because that is the right thing to do. Or he may feel it just not working for him and end things
The longer you stay in a good situation for you the more benefits you will get
Normally your benefits kick in 90 days and after 6 month you have protection that if you get fired due to things out of you control you can get unemployment and you start to get the full picture of what you are dealing with. The longer you stay at a good job you get bonuses and promotions. Typically you are considered consistant employee at around 4-5 years
With men it is similar! You get a good man, the formalities wear off after 90 days. At 6 months if you havent already, had your first fight, reality has set in, feeling have developed. You graduate your relationship from a "situation" to marriage. After 4-5 years you have been consistent!
Sacrifices will need to be made
At work, not matter what you do, there are going to be times where you have to stay late, go up and beyond what you want to do, and be at work when you don’t want to be there. But you do it because you know it is worth it
Same with a man you have got to be willing to sacrifice to get the most at of your relationship. Cook when you don’t feel like it, be affectionate when you just want him to get away from you, and be strong when you don’t feel like you cant hang on any longer
The type of situation you choose will determine what you get
You work thr a temp agency you arent promised anything and you will probably be bounce from job to job... you pick temp men you are going to be promised nothing and bounced around
You pick a career job and you work hard at that job you will get great reward and security... you pick a quality man and you work hard for the situation you will get great rewards and security
When you don’t know how to do something you ask for help—communication is key!
When we are at work and we don’t know how to do something, we are quick to ask for help or say we don’t know how to do something
We have to take the same approach with relationships! You don’t have to put up a front like you are perfect; ask that man for help! That's what a good man is there for!
The higher you get promoted the more responsibility you will have
When on a job you get promoted to a trainer, manager, executive, etc., you expect to take more accountablity for your actions and behave differently the higher you go. You earn your title.
When you are promoted within a relationship you should be doing the same. You shouldn’t think that you are going be able to behave the same reguardless of your title. You have to earn your title through your actions and accountablity.
It's easier and more beneficial to balance one situation at a time
It's a scary feeling to think that you are going to loose your job but, for the most part we have one main job and we do whatever we can to secure it! When you are joggling multiple jobs, you arent putting the best you can into anything.
With a man, it hard being lonely. You think if you keep them in rotation, you don’t have to worry about it . However, the most rewarding thing is putting your time into one situation. You should ground yourself to be the best person you can be for you and that one man.
We don’t expect our jobs to give us a paycheck if we arent working! We don’t expect a promotion without sacrifices and hard work. We shouldn’t expect a commitment and growth from a man without putting in the work to get it. Most of us don’t go off on our higher ups and "give them a piece of our mind" whenever we feel like it. We should be holding ourselves to the same standards with our men. At the end of the day at work you are just a number. But to your man you are that one! Give your man propority like you do your job!
(Disclaimer: We don’t promote abuse of any sort! Don’t stay in a situation that is toxic. Also relationship don’t always end because anybody did anything wrong. Sometimes things just arern't meant to. If a relationship ends because of you, learn from it and do better next time.)
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