What is the first thing you think when you think of a child? Maybe innocent? Naive? Charming? What about about slave or an asset? I am going to break down the dirty business of children being free human capital in the black community. We are going to be exploring the root cause, the negative effects, and solutions to this tragic problem.
It's nothing new for children to be used and abused. It happens all around the world. However, what's unique about it in the black community is we use them as disposable goods; we don't build children up to be productive human beings for our community. But why would we want to cause harm to such an innocent vulnerable creation of God? Well there are a couple of things that contributed to the problem but it started with integration.
The Destruction of the Black Community
In 1964 the Civil Rights Act made segregation "illegal". According to ncbi.org, many very prominent blacks moved their families to the newly integrated neighborhoods. Doing so caused us to loose people like our doctors, lawyers, and merchants, which would keep money from coming back into the community. Then there was Vietnam draft of 1969 that was rigged. "While 34.10% of all black registrants were ultimately inducted, only 24.04% of the whites were drafted", according to jstor.com. Not only were there more black men drafted but, made sure to draft our best men. This left a lot of dusty options behind. If this wasn't bad enough the complete fall of the black community came with welfare. Why? Well it created the most destructive monster: The welfare queen.
Welfare wasn't a new concept, "in 1935 the first form of American federal welfare as we know it was- the ' New Deal' "according to History.com. It was initially created to give the poor white single mothers and the elderly an advantage over the poor blacks. When they gave it to us it was meant to destroy our family structure. When it was given to black women: they couldn't have a man in the house, they couldn't have a steady income, and they were encouraged to keep having illegitimate children.
When welfare set in, it stop parents from having to think what was best for their families. The government did the parenting and adults stopped developing mentally. They become adult children. Black men weren't guiding their black women. Real black men were absent from the home and replaced with men boys. The women in the home became wild perverted beings.
The Consequences for Our Children
Women become addicted to welfare harder than a crackhead on crack in the 80's. This made children property. It created a disorder called Muchchausen by proxy (factitious disorder) in black mothers; a mental illness that causes them to "intentionally create, cause or exaggerate an illness or injury in (their children)." This could be any thing from poisoning their children, physically abuse, starving, and not limited to intentionally making sure a child doesn't meet milestones. The more disabled the child is the more money they know they can get from the state!
Child abuse from her partners is another horrify thing that comes from welfare families. Black women are often bringing sexual partners in the home that aren't the father of if not one or all of her children. "Child abuse is 40 times more likely when single parents find new partners." It's a lot easier for a man to sexually, emotional, mentally, and physically abuse a boy or girl that isn't his own.
Girls are likely to get molested because perverted men like to take advantage of their youth and innocence that her mother no longer has. He knows that he is no good and knows that the mother has to have low self esteem to want to be with him. Due to this many times mothers know that their daughters are being violated, but they are so desperate for a man to be around. She also resents her daughter because she knows that she has something that she no longer has. Then on top of that she has to think about all the men she have let run through her, and may deep down want her daughter to be as tainted as her in jealousy. Often times the mother is physical and emotionally abuse in these situations.
Boys are likely to get physically abused to show him who the man is around the house. Men liken to a male lion. When a lion comes to claim a lioness who already has cubs he will kill off the males to claim his territory. It's usually not hard because black mother's already have resentment for their sons because every time they see them they can see their "good-for-nothing-daddy". She more than like already emotionally and physically abusing him to de-masculate him.
Child neglect is another serious problem. Welfare queens don't feel any sense of responsibility. This can be anything from not ensuring children are getting proper education to not making sure her children are fed. Her babies may be left home alone unsupervised or she leaves them with someone that will be likely to harm them. The difference with this abuse is it's not always intentional. The mother is just selfish and hasn't matured enough to think outside of herself.
What is the Resolution?
Well we all know there isn't any quick and easy fix, but first this culture has to be denounced. We can't change these women because they are sick and delusional. These welfare queens have sexually, emotionally, mentally, and or physically abused their children for material gain.We as women have to stop praising these women for being single mothers trying to do the best they can. Ratchet women need to feel the burn of shame, so they can think twice about being hotandtot and getting knocked up. We need to talk to our young daughters about their bodies, so they understand what is going on with it. We also got to let our children know that they can come to us at anytime. But in the same breathe we have to be observant; we cannot aspect children especially young children to tell us if something uncomfortable or disturbing happened because often times it's someone they know.
Sisters, aunties, grandmothers, and other figures have to SPEAK UP when they see something isn't right with a child because IT IS YOUR BUSINESS!! Children aren't property. We all have a child inside of us. Some of us know better than others how it feels to be violated and unable to do anything about it. Please don't turn your head while it happens to a child because "for every report 2 more go unreported = many millions abused annually."
This article was on point...i walked away from this learning something. This topic definitely need to be addressed because the children are our future personnel. If we are self sabotaging them how can we expect anything great? Good read
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